Halfway house

Tomorrow is a big day in the progress of our dream house. Take a look -




These three apartments are located in a neighborhood that is needing some light. The guys that we are graduating from rehab are needing a place to go, and a purpose. We want to bring some beterment to the neighborhood, and give our guys a place to start again, with the support of a Christian enviroment.
I'd write more, but a bunch of guys are coming over to my house for a time of worship and grilling out as I am writing this.

Tomorrow we meet with the house owner to talk about the purchase of this house.
Please pray for this meeting! This is a realy big deal for us, and the guys who are needing it. I will update with the news after the meeting tomorrow.

Peace in you home.

Celebrate Recovery

Last night we had our Celebrate Recovery support group. One of the guys in the group who most recently completed the drug rehab program came to share about the struggles of leading as a dad and husband. His five year old boy had breathing problems this week, leading to a night in the hospital, and the marital tensions that come with high stress and lack of sleep.

At the same time as it was concerning to hear of difficulties my friend is encountering, it was great to see the redemption that shines in the life he is leading. At this time last year he didn't have the mind to serve as a husband or a father. His priority was feeding a drug addiction. Last night he spoke of a new reality. He is not resentful or bitter about the difficulties, he is just learning to live in a new role. His redemption has brought redemption to his whole house- be it in good times or bad.

After sharing our different struggles we had a time of worship. God soothes the soul that is place openly and with humility before Him. I can't describe very well what that was like... but I saw my friend humble himself before the Lord, and the Lord lifted him up.

Kaiserês

In about an hour we will be receiving a major group of our biggest partners here in Itu. They call themselves the Kaiserês, and they are a group of high school age students that give life to our house.

We are in a series about putting ourselves at risk for the sake of living out our faith in a world that runs from trouble. The crisis in Japan has been the reference point for us. As thousands of people are evacuating from the area of an unstable nuclear power plant, a small team is being trained to enter into this plant and face the problem.
Our question to the kids is "What is the melting power plant in your life, and what are you doing to help?"
May we all be His hands and His feet.

CHANCE PROJECT(s)

In 2009 we invited homeless into our home. We realized they were the ones that most need a space that would invite them in as dignified, valuable creation. We began by offering a warm meal and a listening ear. Today, two years later, they eat, shower, change clothes, wash their dirty garments, get a haircut, share their stories, and listen to others. They call themselves the XICXOU family, which is a slang meaning “very cool”. They are a very cool community.
But this is not enough.
We invite them weekly to change their journey… to pursue something better. They are accepted and cherished, and they know that what we desire is to be a place, a group of people, that invites them to open their wings, to live the life they were created to live.
If we extend the invitation, we must be ready to provide the means for change.
Today our home dreams of opening a drug rehab center and a halfway house for the men who chose to take flight. In the last year, three of our homeless friends have chosen to rehabilitate their lives: Alemao, Eduardo, and Samuel. Not one of them has a stable family or community to return to. We want to provide a house where they can call home, and receive the emotional and spiritual support to stay clean, and the tools to become a valuable part of society and contributors to a healthy community. Setting up this home is the beginning.
But that’s not where we stop.
We also want to establish a drug rehab center where men get the chance to start over in a holistic community (small businesses will be run from within to create an internal economy). In addition to changing addictive habits, lessons will include relapse prevention, work ethic, professional skills and administration of finances.

We want to give these men a CHANCE to change.
We are in the business of giving people a CHANCE.
CHANCE bags is the way we want to raise funds for this dream - this needed reality. The bags are made with “upcycled” material, and produced by the community that wants to see the change take place – our communal home, our partners, our homeless friends, and recovering drug addicts.
We want to use material that represents the country we are developing, Brazil. This is why we’ve chosen to build CHANCE bags with used soccer jerseys and soccer balls. This is where you can contribute. Bring along any and all soccer jerseys you are willing to donate to this movement, and be a part of giving people a CHANCE.

For every CHANCE bag sold, a homeless friend will receive a CHANCE to change.

Quick Update

It's Carnival again in Brazil! Tomorrow morning (5AM) we will load 3 cars and drive 9 hours up north to take part in a retreat with our youth group in Belo Horizante. We will be gone through Wednesday.

A couple updates -
last blog I mentioned that Harley had come into our home in expectation of getting into rehab. He is doing great! He has been through a world of change in a week and is committed to seeing this through and becoming a new kind of husband/dad. His depression has been turned to joy in an amazing way! I have started meeting one on one with his son weekly as well, who has been launched into a whole new level of reality through this experience.

we are working with a lawyer (our friend Vitinho) to set up our non-profit organization to better serve guys coming out of rehab. God has brought all kinds of connections out of nowhere to make this happen, i'll have to explain all that in another blog.

Please pray for this journey and retreat. Trips are very formative experiences for youth groups, and we want to see our kids be formed as Christ would have them to be.

Alright, happy Carnival to you all!

An undeniable God

There have been some things that we've lived in this last week that have been hard to describe... because I'm not sure that I "get it" myself. One example is the story of Fran. Her story with us started a week ago Thursday, the day after we got back into the country.

Before going to the US in January Ali and I were becoming more and more involved with a work of the city government called CREAS. They work assisting homeless and youth on probation and I had offered my services for assisting in home visits and group meetings. When I went to visit recently, it was to initiate this type of service again, but that's not what happened.

As I stepped into Alzira's office (the city's social worker who has now become a close friend) there was a lot of tension in the air. They had been working all day to resolve a problem with a 15 year old girl named Fran who had come to them for help because of abuse in the home. They had arranged an interview for her to be taken into a clinic, but this wouldn't be till Monday. They had exhausted their resources the city had nothing to offer her. They were about to send her back into her abusive home. I asked to use the phone, Ali and I talked it over, and Fran moved temporarily into our home.

Ali and I had just arrived back here in Itu from a month in the US, so this wasn't easy. Fran's presence took a lot of attention. She didn't know the norms of being in someone else's home, when she was in a room we couldn't help but wonder what wouldn't be when she came out, and her base interaction with boys was... constant.

Fran saw a different world here, and took part in it. She went with us to church and various home groups. When she learned of our plans to have a community center she took us to a place that she thought we should consider (pictured here). It is an old night club that is falling apart and mainly used by kids who are looking for a place to do drugs.

We learned a lot about the Itu drug market as Fran used to sell. We went downtown with her one night and she started pointing out who sells, who prostitutes and explaining how it's all organized, stuff fifteen year olds aren't supposed to know.

The clinic that Fran was supposed to be put into didn't work out. She ended up staying with us for a week before another solution was worked out by the city. I questioned how wise this was on my part, and wasn't going to blog about it because I figured, 'this is not what we do... it's just something that happened. We have a focus and I don't want to give the false impression that this is it.' Then Alzira (the social worker who is pictured below with her husband) came and sat down with Ali one evening to talk about what was going on.


Alzira would not refer to herself as a Christian, and maybe that's why her words struck me so hard. She described the day this all started. She had brainstormed with all of her co-workers, called on all available city resources, called for a second brainstorming session, and then made some more phone calls and she had come up with nothing. She was giving up and dreading telling Fran that she would have to go back home. Telling Ali this story she said, "I only know of one person in this city who would open his own home to a situation like this, and at that very moment, he walks into my office, hears the story, and says, 'okay, she can come home with us'. It was like there was some... cooperation between something bigger and Mark to bring about the right sollution at the right time..."

Then I realized, this is a story to be told openly because it had very little to do with 'what I was doing,' and everything to do with what God was doing. That was clear even to someone who lacks words for "something bigger" and it is a witness to the readiness of our God to use us in this world.

As I write this we have a new visitor in our house. His name is Harley and he has been addicted to drugs for many years. Harley sought me out this morning desperate for help. I spoke with the director of the rehab clinic and there is a waiting list, but we are going to start the process this afternoon. In the days between now and when he can move in, Harley will be with us and will sleep with Manu and Eric in the garage. We are in the process of opening a halfway house, and till it's open, looks like we're it.

Please pray for Gods strong presence in this house. His kingdom come, His will be done, on earth as it is in Heaven.

Back at it

In the last month Ali and I spent time with a lot of family and friends. We were in the US and spent time in Michigan, Ohio, and Texas. We spent a lot of time catching folks up on what's happening in Brazil, and learning from some of the things unfolding State-side. We loved the time there and are very grateful to the many families who hosted us. Wednesday night we arrived back home, and life is crazy once more!

On Thursday, I visited with a unit of the city government that deals with youth on probation and homeless. They are excited about our intentions to start a halfway house for the guys getting out of rehab, and set up a meeting this coming Thursday for us to meet with the cities secretary of social action to propose our plan and to discover what help we the city might offer.

This morning one of the city social workers, Alzira, came to visit the location. We talked with many of you about the crack house that we would like to turn into a halfway house, and the abandoned daycare that we hope to use as a community center. Below are pictures of both.

This will be a big week regarding these projects, and with catching up with the rest of our normal lives. We appreciate your prayers as we jump back into life here in Itu. We know that God has great things in store, and are anxious to live them out.